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Women's Singles Women's groups have been formed for Human Rights in Nepal 20 years ago. Time-honored women, single women, too, the situation was very weak. For those women who speak, those women who came to his talk, honest cries, there was pain in exchange. Looking for the same place as it was the need of organization and the organization was born.
At that time, five hundred rupees were rented room in office. Now we are operating in a large house rented office. Now we have reached 15 hundred and 50 VDCs. At that time, seven women also had to register with the institution is guided by «the Second had. Now, more than a million women have been engaged in our group.
20 obstrucle which was difficult. Single women are now cut off from the family, ranging from over 20 obstrucle what it was. At that time, the social, cultural, religious, economic and all in terms of female victims. Cut off from family and society's view of rejected widow was drastically different. Lili Thapa (2) -001
They lost their life journey half of single women in our society, to walk, to speak, clothing, food and all-everything was under a different code. Most of the women were financially dependent. Many of those women were dependent person about. Moreover, the economic and social situation of single women was still very poor.
Even more so with a few such organizations were active, who raised their voice for women's rights. Still, such a group is to raise a voice for single women was impossible. For most of the policy were made for single women, rule, religion and the culture were connected. Such union-organizations active supporter of the religious fanatic.
The single spark of the soul merges the death of her husband?
I am a man who is born into middle-class family. 2 9 years old, I lost my husband. When I lost him, when her husband takes off yesterday was prohibited to wear. Restrictions on walk. The child was three. Big Baby 10, between 9 and 3 years for a small deposit. At that time, I was not so much to know and be able to speak. Just a small school was calairakheki. Missing my reading was just being completed. Masters was doing.
To me, educated and self-reliant man alone after losing her husband so much trouble even if the condition of the other women I wondered how I was forced to.
Then I started to walk tyastaikhalaka single women looking for. Godavari my sons studied in the school, there lived in hostel. I see gairahanthem. Consequently, a day school, reminding me a widow who lived were brought. I see the woman in her home three or four times in vain ÷. I met him only a fourth. My daughter-her-in-law that I came to destroy something about that yesterday, that feel like not many. "No mother, my husband also recently past 45 days, 'or that I am come to realize that women and sisters to listen to the mother reminded. Lili Thapa (7) -001
A, so that soon came outside, whose mother surprised. I was gone green kurtha. White could wear it. Green, red, why do they pitched crying mother also seems to accompany that.
I met a young 25 years old. His lap was a child. She had a husband who abused her husband's death bhaisakepachadi. Law behavior was very dikdaralagdo. Society was rejected. My parents also said Harold. Only one nurse and her sister lived. I saw his condition was now something similar for women to work.
Some of these women how? How to save him? How long that I could not sleep. Day and night my amkhavaripari dulirahyo his innocent face.
A few days off from acute antaradvandvapachi those women, I concluded that some of the skills pugame independence. Bring a friend at the pattern sewing scissors, sewing training center to train law it had changed their lives. He became a big businessman now have. Sewing Center open 15 persons have filed their own jobs. Today, I feel proud to see him.
Emergency life's most beautiful
I was born in wealthy family and was held in the family married. Therefore, economically aphnomatra my life was hard, but I am about to run any other individual who should do something for the poor women and organized into thinking that evils and kusanskaraviruddha speak out, I left the house three ÷ three children abroad for higher study was hannieki.
My father was humanasinha Basnet of Nepali Army general. I grew up in a joint family in Kathmandu Kalikasthan sons and daughters in the family never did discriminate bazaar. I have never felt that I am the daughter and weak. Where-where is father's posting, there were walked all very ANA. Emergency life was the most beautiful.
Studies also was very fast. The age of 13, she had passed the SLC. Although the 13-year-old father was, even at 16 years of age were built. At 16 years of age for the SLC exam pugnaipathryae day. 17 years old, she graduated with my 18 years of age, was then married the bhaisakekoe. Lili Thapa (3) -001
Father's last wish: to marry
My wedding is also a separate story. After I read his bachelor's studies graduate was planning to go abroad, but at the same time in my life came to a mode. Suddenly ill father. Should the hospital was nine months. The operation was also needed two. Aspalalale was told there is no chance of living. Four children who could not learn to overcome his father's first child get married. The father was the last person in the hospital died, the desire to leave a dream to study abroad, I married, I Thapa of Nepal Army doctor Amir and Naxal house of marriage, she had started.
But nowadays, if the hospital is also a wonderful chance to survive was to heal the father said. The kernel was also the grandson of time after the general was and dekhnubhayoe. Only a few years later died of his father was taken seriously.
I have been married for 15 years through the whole housewife sat at home. Tyobicama three sons. Only a small child was born, that was your reading unresolved issues. Rosie to at Bud's name also had to keep busy by running a boarding school, had begun.
I became a widow
Life was running my own pace. Husband was gone all peace missions in Iraq, but he will never return to Iraq could come. He died away. My child was very young. And, thus, another turning point in my life.
Contingent upon parighatanale forced to think about the lives of many banaumdarahechan. The Nirash and colorless living life to the formation of a single entity for women to get out of bed I felt, as I still do a lot of studying. Any time a single woman working in the region, had been demanding the institution, but I do not have enough knowledge about nor experience was the same. So take some time to study the matter more fully, I was about to abroad.
The table had been set to meet Sunday day. How many women make excuses came home, office, tears and emotion exchange. In the past eight / ten place only after the coming pacasaunjana single women began to be gathered. Even after the school began to be disturbed. And Ghattekulo skulanajikai small room rent of Rs five hundred and was officially launched Office organization.
Thus was born the institution
Institution is? NGOs What is it? I did not know anything. Sunday, the day her husband lost his school single women cadres together, weeping, listened to his heart, slept news. My mother is my first donor. Some women have to muster some support for her mother magthame money. If you need some, a child admitted to or no treatment or to pay fees for some, a child what to ask for the money when the mother never did for her many good things Nainasti doing her mother knew that.
So I started to carry out social work, I hand. Weak economic situation of single women in their school for a child, make sure the quota system had been received scholarships. If after so kastosamma scholarship to teach a child is found in the countryside to deceased soldiers Mrs. Ray heard that our school has been taking camping craze began, and such a child is difficult to hold school began.
Registered in the first equally guided by «the Second had. Seven NGOs to register any government, citizenship is needed to gather the rules, he served citizenship but citizenship widow feared. The Po will be. Some would say that from tomorrow the family, gaining their families that they were afraid that there would be deprived of. There was also a mockery of office. Women came, drew the curtain aunabittikai Uma cry. He believes himself to his relatives after such didibahiniko citizenship and registered her asking.
The table had been set to meet Sunday day. How many women make excuses came home, office, tears and emotion exchange. In the past eight / ten place only after the coming pacasaunjana single women began to be gathered. Even after the school began to be disturbed. And Ghattekulo skulanajikai small room rent of Rs five hundred and was officially launched Office organization. Lili Thapa (1) -001
Thinking man changes
This is a campaign now think we are looking at. 75 districts are now organized women. Single women look at the different social attitudes. Yesterday spend manually run an organization was put on the government today to give themselves to the seeking budget. First widow clothing, food was the code of conduct in all things. At least that single women are now in touch with us, they are able to walk on it breaking the code of conduct. However, society still unorganized many single women are imprisoned acarasanhitabhitrai. Todara not been able to come out of it. Odds are social superstition. Already passed by the widow and the widow said today that the situation is not known. Man thinking has changed. Yesterday, the government had no plans in this regard today, his plan is sametisakeko. The government is now the attainment of single women has raised.
There is also described that religion is not weak widow. Hindu religion, the Koran, the Bible, or Tipitaka is not written anywhere that women are weak themselves but society leaders have wrongly scriptural obligation. And religion have also used aphuanurupa. On the contrary, the goddess of strength as women religious, as a powerful bastion is ubhyaidieko. However, Nike prove himself religious fringe of society are interpreted outcast.
In Nepal, there are nearly 6 million the number of single women. Women who are educated and self-reliant, they want their organization to come. The poor economic situation of women are not educated, relatively more such women have been coming to us.
Single women are receiving widow allowance already reached the age of 60 years was the only arrangement. We have been requested to put the issue before the Supreme Court've won. Some women find vidhavabhatta no age requirement now.
Similarly, only 35 years old at the property under the legal provision is now recovered. I have 9 years of age, a widow herself is 2. Why wait 35 years in prison, and also that the issue of lands. Young widow married 50 thousand provision for the government was now removed it. Now remarried former husband's inheritance precedent has been established. The government of Nepal to give the same amount of remarriage for widows now suraksakosa is made. The funds for the capacity of single women in the villages have been given abhivrddhidekhi other various technical training. Gainful employment, skills training and legal complexity to match any single women who are to receive the fund.
Januparyo foreign passport for employment if the woman's husband, without any male member of the household, it was customary to take approval. That provision has been removed. Similarly, in case of single women 18 years old and unmarried sons and daughters, some of which can not without approval from the mother alone, their share is changed legal provisions.
misinterpretation of religion
There is also described that religion is not weak widow.
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